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KOLAYCILI\u011eIN \u0130NSAN hayat\u0131na k\u00f6k sald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve hayat\u0131n her alan\u0131na dallan\u0131p budakland\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir zamanda ya\u015f\u0131yoruz. Kolayl\u0131klarla dolu bir hayat\u0131n insan\u0131n bu kolayl\u0131klar\u0131n kazand\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman ve enerji fazlas\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmak istedi\u011fi alanlara kayd\u0131rmas\u0131na imk\u00e2n tan\u0131yaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz. Oysa i\u015fin b\u00f6yle ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmedi\u011fini, kolayl\u0131klardan kolayc\u0131l\u0131\u011fa kayan bir geli\u015fmenin ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz. Bir anlam\u0131yla \u2018g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcn\u00fcn egemenli\u011fi\u2019nin ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131na \u015fahit oluyoruz. \u2018Olmak\u2019 de\u011fil, \u2018g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek\u2019 hayatlar\u0131m\u0131za damgas\u0131n\u0131 vuruyor.<\/p>\n
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S\u00f6zgelimi, zengin olmak istiyorsunuz. Bunun yolu, sab\u0131rla i\u015f imkanlar\u0131n\u0131 yoklamak, sonu h\u00fcsranla bitebilecek giri\u015fimlerde bulunmaktan ge\u00e7iyor. Ama t\u00fcm bunlar zaman ve gayret gerektiriyor. Oysa, ikisi de \u00e7ok bol olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen bug\u00fcn\u00fcn insan\u0131 olarak kullanmay\u0131 beceremedi\u011fimiz iki de\u011fer. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ikisi de zor olan\u0131 se\u00e7mek demek. Zor olansa, bizler i\u00e7in zor. Halbuki i\u015fin kolay\u0131 var. Nas\u0131l m\u0131? Zenginlikten beklentileriniz nelerdir? L\u00fcks bir ev ve l\u00fcks bir araba, markal\u0131 giysiler, pahal\u0131 lokantalar ve bunlar gibi \u00fczerinizde g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcp \u2018ben zenginim\u2019 dedirtecek cinsten \u015feyler. Hepsine kolayca ula\u015fabilirsiniz. Krediler, kredi kart\u0131 ve taksit imkanlar\u0131 size istedi\u011finiz hayat\u0131 zahmete girmenize gerek kalmadan ya\u015fat\u0131r. Tabii \u00f6demelerde ya\u015fan\u0131lan s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131, taksit \u00f6demekle ge\u00e7irilen bir hayat\u0131 zahmetten saymazsak. Sonu\u00e7ta zengin olmazs\u0131n\u0131z ama zengin g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz.<\/p>\n
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E\u011fitimli ve ciddi bir i\u015f sahibi mi olmak istiyorsunuz? Bunun i\u00e7in akl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda bir \u00f6\u011frenci olup ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya \u00f6nemli bir zaman ay\u0131rmak, hayat\u0131n\u0131n uzun y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 okullarla ha\u015f\u0131r-ne\u015fir, kitaplarla i\u00e7li-d\u0131\u015fl\u0131 ge\u00e7irmek gerekti\u011fini biliriz. Ama bu i\u015fin zor yan\u0131. Zor geliyor. \u00d6yleyse al\u0131n size numaras\u0131z bir g\u00f6zl\u00fck, \u00fczerinize bir tak\u0131m elbise, elinize de bir evrak \u00e7antas\u0131. E\u011fitimli de\u011filseniz veya iyi bir i\u015f sahibi olamad\u0131ysan\u0131z da \u00f6yle g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyorsunuz.<\/p>\n
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Art\u0131k g\u00fcndelik hayat\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7erisinde, bu \u2018g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fc\u2019 insanlar\u0131na s\u0131k\u00e7a rastl\u0131yoruz. \u2018G\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fc zenginleri\u2019, \u2018g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fc e\u011fitimlileri\u2019, \u2018g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fc g\u00fczelleri\u2019 vb.<\/p>\n
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Ne yaz\u0131k ki, bu \u015fekilde uzat\u0131p gidebilece\u011fimiz bir listeye bir de \u015funu ekleyebiliriz: \u2018g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fc m\u00fcttakileri.\u2019<\/p>\n
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Modern zaman\u0131n modern insan\u0131n\u0131n bu kolayc\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan maalesef din ve dindarl\u0131k da nasibini al\u0131yor.<\/p>\n
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Modern zaman\u0131n insan\u0131 olarak kolayca \u2018m\u00fcttaki bir dindar\u2019 da olabilirsiniz. Dilinize dolayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z birka\u00e7 kelime, evinizde ve giyiminizde yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z radikal birka\u00e7 de\u011fi\u015fiklik bu g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcy\u00fc sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in yeterli. M\u00fcttaki olmad\u0131n\u0131z belki, ama m\u00fcttaki g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyi ba\u015fard\u0131n\u0131z!<\/p>\n
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Bu g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fc ile kendinizi dahi kand\u0131rman\u0131z m\u00fcmk\u00fcn. <\/p>\n
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Bu g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn arkas\u0131nda i\u015f hayat\u0131n\u0131zdaki \u0130sl\u00e2m\u00ee ahl\u00e2ka uymayan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z, evinizde ev halk\u0131na, yak\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131za \u00e7ektirdikleriniz, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131n\u0131za hakaret dolu ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z, israf y\u00fckl\u00fc harcamalar\u0131n\u0131z, huzursuz ruh haliniz, hi\u00e7bir \u015feyden ho\u015fnut kalmaman\u0131z, t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u00e7e\u015fit harama bula\u015fan ticaret hayat\u0131n\u0131z oldu\u011fu gibi kalabiliyor. Nas\u0131lsa, \u00fc\u00e7-be\u015f sembolik hareket, \u00fc\u00e7-be\u015f sembolik g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fc ile pek\u00e2l\u00e2 tam bir dindar m\u00fcttaki gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyorsunuz. <\/p>\n
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Oysa ki, g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn nuru, hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n rehberi muhterem Nebi aleyhissalatu vesselam, \u201cK\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fcnde m\u00fcminin mizan\u0131nda g\u00fczel ahlaktan daha a\u011f\u0131r basan bir\u015fey yoktur. Allahu Teala hazretleri, \u00e7irkin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck s\u00f6z ve davran\u0131\u015f sahiplerine bu\u011fzeder\u201d buyuruuyor. Hal bu iken, bize d\u00fc\u015fen nedir? Peygamber Efendimiz \u201cG\u00fczel ahlak sahibi, ahlak\u0131 sayesinde namaz ve oru\u00e7 sahibinin derecesine ula\u015f\u0131r\u201d demi\u015fken, g\u00fczel ahl\u00e2k\u0131 elinin tersiyle iteleyerek ba\u015fkalar\u0131na g\u00f6re \u2018fazla\u2019 g\u00f6z\u00fcken namaz\u0131m\u0131zla, orucumuzla, \u00f6rt\u00fcm\u00fczle, okudu\u011fumuz \u00e2yet say\u0131s\u0131yla, evimize sokmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7-be\u015f nesne ile kendimizi nas\u0131l m\u00fcttaki sayabiliriz?<\/p>\n
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\u201cEmin, d\u00fcr\u00fcst m\u00fcsl\u00fcman tacir, K\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fc \u015fehidllerle beraberdir\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc duydu\u011fumuzda sadece kendimizi m\u00fcsl\u00fcman olarak tan\u0131ml\u0131yor olmam\u0131z\u0131n bizi ticaretimizde sorumluluktan kurtarmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bu noktada \u015fahsi farzlar\u0131m\u0131za riayet ediyor olman\u0131n da, hatta nafilelerimizin bile i\u015fbu noktada hesaba \u00e7ekilmekten bizi al\u0131koymayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l g\u00f6rmezden gelebiliriz?<\/p>\n
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M\u00fcttaki olmak, her bir an\u0131 m\u00fc\u2019min\u00e2ne ya\u015fama \u00e7abas\u0131 i\u00e7inde olmak, ama zaaf ve kusurunun fark\u0131nda olarak haddini bilmek olsa gerek. Bir e\u015f olarak ehline hay\u0131rl\u0131 olmak, bir anne olarak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na merhamet g\u00f6stermek, bir evlat olarak anne-baba hat\u0131r\u0131 g\u00f6zetmek, akraba olarak s\u0131la-y\u0131 rahimi ihmal etmemek, t\u00fcccar olarak ticaretinde d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmak… Bar\u0131nd\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her bir alt kimlikte o kimlik kal\u0131b\u0131nda Rabbimizin bizden olmam\u0131z\u0131 istedi\u011fi hal ile hallenebilmek.<\/p>\n
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Umulur ki, namaz\u0131m\u0131z bizi bu noktaya getirsin. Umulur ki, namaz\u0131m\u0131z Ankebut s\u00fbresinde Rabbimizin buyurdu\u011fu gibi bizi \u2018fah\u015f\u00e2 ve m\u00fcnker\u2019den al\u0131koysun, M\u00e2\u00fbn s\u00fbresinde uyar\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi \u2018g\u00f6rs\u00fcnler diye\u2019 k\u0131l\u0131n\u0131yor olmas\u0131n. Umulur ki, oldu\u011fumuz gibi olal\u0131m, g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcyle ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 ve en ba\u015fta da kendimizi aldatmayal\u0131m.<\/p>\n
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M\u00fcmine d\u00fc\u015fen ne kendini kand\u0131rmak, ne de ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc boyamakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n
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Bu bak\u0131mdan, belli noktalarda \u2018takva\u2019 manzaras\u0131 arzetmek yerine hayat\u0131n\u0131n tamam\u0131na \u2018g\u00fczel ahlak\u2019\u0131 yaymaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 bize \u00f6\u011f\u00fctleyen onlarca hadisten bu \u2018g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fc\u2019 \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n\u0131n dindarlar\u0131n\u0131n alaca\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ok ders bulunmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n
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30.12.2005 KOLAYCILI\u011eIN \u0130NSAN hayat\u0131na k\u00f6k sald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve hayat\u0131n her alan\u0131na dallan\u0131p budakland\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir zamanda ya\u015f\u0131yoruz. Kolayl\u0131klarla dolu bir hayat\u0131n insan\u0131n bu kolayl\u0131klar\u0131n kazand\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman ve enerji fazlas\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmak istedi\u011fi alanlara kayd\u0131rmas\u0131na imk\u00e2n tan\u0131yaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz. Oysa i\u015fin b\u00f6yle ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmedi\u011fini, kolayl\u0131klardan kolayc\u0131l\u0131\u011fa kayan bir geli\u015fmenin ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz. Bir anlam\u0131yla \u2018g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcn\u00fcn egemenli\u011fi\u2019nin ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131na \u015fahit oluyoruz. \u2018Olmak\u2019 de\u011fil, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":30,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"ppma_author":[188],"class_list":["post-89792","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-yazarlar"],"yoast_head":"\n