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HEMEN HER insan\u0131n, hayat yolculu\u011fu esnas\u0131nda az ya da \u00e7ok \u00f6nem atfetti\u011fi baz\u0131 \u2018\u00f6zel g\u00fcnleri\u2019 vard\u0131r. Bazen hayattaki belli bir d\u00f6nemin bitmesini ve bazen de yepyeni bir devrin ba\u015flamas\u0131n\u0131 temsil eden g\u00fcnlerden tutun da, anlam\u0131 sadece ki\u015fiye \u00f6zel \u00f6ylesine \u00e7ok \u2018kilometre ta\u015f\u0131\u2018 g\u00fcnler daha vard\u0131r ki modern ya\u015fant\u0131larda…<\/p>\n
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Ve malum b\u00f6ylesi g\u00fcnler, \u00f6nemi \u2018tart\u0131\u015f\u0131lamaz\u2018 ve de unutulmas\u0131 insan\u0131 mutlaka \u00e7e\u015fitli s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lara sokacak denli \u2018m\u00fchim\u2018 g\u00fcnleridir de hayat\u0131n! <\/p>\n
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Ne var ki, modern zamanlar\u0131n \u201c\u00f6zel g\u00fcnler\u201d denilince akl\u0131m\u0131za ilk olarak gelmesini istedi\u011fi bu g\u00fcnlerin b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011fu; \u00f6zlerinde, \u201cas\u0131l \u00f6zel g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc\u201d g\u00f6zden ka\u00e7\u0131rmam\u0131za hizmet eden normal-s\u0131radan g\u00fcnlerdirler asl\u0131nda… <\/p>\n
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Zira hayat\u0131n en \u00f6zel veya \u00f6nemli g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc, sadece \u2018do\u011fum, mezuniyet, evlilik, ebeveyn olma g\u00fcn\u00fc vs.\u2019 ile s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 se\u00e7enekler aras\u0131nda aratan bir zihniyetin; \u201chayat s\u0131nav\u0131n\u0131n\u201d bitece\u011fi ve bu \u201chayat\u00ee s\u0131nav\u0131n\u201c nas\u0131l sonu\u00e7lanaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ortaya \u00e7\u0131kaca\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcn olan \u2018o son g\u00fcne\u2019 kar\u015f\u0131 tak\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 ikiy\u00fczl\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve umars\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131, o as\u0131l g\u00fcn\u00fcn g\u00f6zden ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 da pek \u00e7ok kez netice vermektedir. <\/p>\n
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Oysa bu \u2018m\u00fchim g\u00fcnlerin\u2018 umars\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131na ra\u011fmen, \u015fu alemde \u201cherkesin ba\u015f\u0131na \u00f6yle bir dava a\u00e7\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ki\u201c, bu dava; en \u2018m\u00fchiminden\u2018 de olsa kendisini dert edinmeyen her g\u00fcn\u00fcn, asl\u0131nda \u00f6nemsiz ve kaybedilmi\u015f bir g\u00fcn oldu\u011funu haber vermektedir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6yle bir davad\u0131r ki<\/b> bu dava, \u201c\u0130nsan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck mes’elesi<\/b>\u201d olan \u201ciman\u0131 kurtarmak veya kaybetmek davas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/b>\u201d (1)<\/p>\n
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O halde denilebilir ki, \u201cya ebed\u00ee bir felakete ya da baki bir m\u00fckafata ad\u0131m at\u0131lacak o final g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc\u201d hayat\u0131n as\u0131l en \u00f6nemli g\u00fcn\u00fc olarak g\u00f6rmek, akl\u0131n da bir gere\u011fidir. Ya da di\u011fer bir ifadeyle, \u201cAsl\u0131nda hayat\u0131m\u0131n en \u00f6nemli g\u00fcn\u00fc, bu hayat\u0131m\u0131n da varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na sebep olan \u00c2lem-i Beka\u2019ya ad\u0131m ataca\u011f\u0131m g\u00fcnd\u00fcr.\u201d ifadesi, \u201cas\u0131l \u00f6nemli g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u201d konusundaki hakikatin ne id\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc anlat\u0131yor olsa gerektir…<\/p>\n
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Di\u011fer t\u00fcrl\u00fc, g\u00f6zlerimize bir \u201csaadet-i ebediye ziyafetg\u00e2h\u0131<\/b>\u201d veya \u201c\u015fekavet-i daime hapishanesi<\/b>\u201d kap\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 bir g\u00fcn\u00fcn yan\u0131nda; ba\u015fka hangi g\u00fcn veya ba\u015fka hangi y\u0131ld\u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fc, herhangi bir \u00f6nem iddia edebilir ki? <\/p>\n
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Bu sebeple, \u201c\u00c2hirette seni kurtaracak bir eserin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 takdirde, f\u00e2ni d\u00fcnyada b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n eserlere de k\u0131ymet verme<\/b>\u201d (2) \u015feklindeki ikazlara bir de bu nazarla bakmak gerekiyor asl\u0131nda. Yani ‘\u00f6zel g\u00fcnleri\u2018 u\u011fruna, kutlama ve al\u0131\u015f-veri\u015f i\u00e7in her y\u0131l haftalar-aylar s\u00fcren planlamalarla koca bir \u2018\u00f6mr\u00fc t\u00f6rp\u00fclemek\u2018, ancak hayat\u0131n en \u00f6nemli g\u00fcn\u00fc konusunda hakikati \u015fa\u015f\u0131rmakla a\u00e7\u0131klanabilir kan\u0131mca.. <\/p>\n
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Yoksa \u00f6l\u00fcm elbette ac\u0131d\u0131r, sars\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r, \u201cA\u011f\u0131zlar\u0131n tad\u0131n\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r<\/b>\u201d (3); ve do\u011fan g\u00fcne\u015fin de dahil oldu\u011fu \u00fczere, \u201cher mahluk zevale mahkumdur<\/b>\u201d. (4) Ancak, kendisinden kurtulu\u015fun m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 b\u00f6yle bir g\u00fcn, yani bu fani hayat\u0131mdaki o en son g\u00fcn\u00fcm; ben hat\u0131rlamak istemesem de ve kendisini bir \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu hep ba\u015fka \u2019m\u00fchim\u2018 g\u00fcnlerle perdelesem de, benim i\u00e7in hayat\u0131m\u0131n en \u00f6nemli g\u00fcn\u00fcd\u00fcr asl\u0131nda!. <\/p>\n
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\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc i\u015fin sonunda, bu d\u00fcnyadan bir daha d\u00f6nmemek \u00fczere bir kopu\u015fla birlikte, bir \u201c\u015eeb-i \u00c2rus\u2019a\u201d ya da \u2018uzunca bir yasa\u2019 kat\u0131lman\u0131n s\u00f6z konusu oldu\u011fu m\u00fcthi\u015f bir g\u00fcn bulunuyorsa \u015fayet; hayat\u0131m\u0131n en \u00f6nemli g\u00fcn\u00fc, i\u015fte o g\u00fcnd\u00fcr ancak!. Yoksa s\u0131rf bu fani hayata adanm\u0131\u015f g\u00fcnlerden birisi de\u011fil!<\/p>\n
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\u00d6yleyse, g\u00fcnler i\u00e7inde en \u00e7ok da \u201chayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n o en \u00f6nemli g\u00fcn\u00fcne\u201d iyi haz\u0131rlanmal\u0131!<\/p>\n
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Ya da \u2018hi\u00e7 olmazsa\u2019, o g\u00fcne en az di\u011fer \u2018\u00f6zel g\u00fcnlerin\u2019 heyecan\u0131 derecesinde \u00f6nem vermeli!. <\/p>\n
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\u00a9\u00a02021 karakalem.net, Mustafa H. Kurt<\/p>\n
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05.09.2011 HEMEN HER insan\u0131n, hayat yolculu\u011fu esnas\u0131nda az ya da \u00e7ok \u00f6nem atfetti\u011fi baz\u0131 \u2018\u00f6zel g\u00fcnleri\u2019 vard\u0131r. Bazen hayattaki belli bir d\u00f6nemin bitmesini ve bazen de yepyeni bir devrin ba\u015flamas\u0131n\u0131 temsil eden g\u00fcnlerden tutun da, anlam\u0131 sadece ki\u015fiye \u00f6zel \u00f6ylesine \u00e7ok \u2018kilometre ta\u015f\u0131\u2018 g\u00fcnler daha vard\u0131r ki modern ya\u015fant\u0131larda… Ve malum b\u00f6ylesi g\u00fcnler, \u00f6nemi \u2018tart\u0131\u015f\u0131lamaz\u2018 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":15,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"ppma_author":[160],"class_list":["post-88686","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-yazarlar"],"yoast_head":"\n