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B\u0130R \u00d6L\u00dcM haberi ald\u0131\u011f\u0131mda akl\u0131ma hep Efendimiz aleyhissalatuvesselam\u2019\u0131n ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6l\u00fcm haberleri gelir. Hen\u00fcz do\u011fmadan babas\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmi\u015ftir \u00f6rne\u011fin, daha ilk \u00e7ocukluk y\u0131llar\u0131na bir \u2018kay\u0131p\u2019la ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. 6 ya\u015f\u0131na geldi\u011finde yeni bir kay\u0131pla tan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Bu kez annesini kaybedecektir.<\/p>\n
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Anne-babas\u0131z b\u00fcy\u00fcyen \u00c2lemlerin Efendisi, annesinin vefat\u0131n\u0131n 2 y\u0131l ard\u0131ndan, bu sefer ona merhametli kuca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7an dedesi Abdulmuttalip\u2019i de kaybedecektir. Dedesinin ard\u0131ndan emaneti babas\u0131ndan devralan, Efendimiz\u2019in amcas\u0131 Ebu Talip ise yine Efendimiz hayattayken, bi\u2019setin onuncu y\u0131l\u0131nda, 620 senesinde vefat edecektir. Efendimiz\u2019in sonras\u0131nda H\u00fcz\u00fcn Y\u0131l\u0131 olarak isimlendirece\u011fi ayn\u0131 y\u0131lda, en sevdi\u011fi insan\u0131, e\u015fi Hz. Hatice\u2019yi de \u2018kaybedecektir\u2019.<\/p>\n
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Efendimiz\u2019in hayat\u0131ndayken ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6l\u00fcm haberleri bunlarla da s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 de\u011fildir. 1 de\u011fil, tam 5 \u00e7ocu\u011funun vefat\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f, elleriyle vermi\u015ftir ci\u011ferparelerini topra\u011fa. Hatta \u00f6l\u00fcm d\u00f6\u015fe\u011findeki o\u011flu \u0130brahim\u2019e a\u011flayan Rasulullah\u2019\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcp de \u015fa\u015f\u0131ran sahabilerine \u201cbu g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131 \u015fefkattendir, kalb \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcr, g\u00f6z ya\u015far\u0131r\u201d deyi\u015fi i\u015fte bu \u2018kay\u0131p\u2019lardan biri esnas\u0131nda vuku bulmu\u015ftur. Torunlar\u0131n\u0131n vefat\u0131n\u0131 da g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr Efendimiz, onlar\u0131 da \u2018kaybetmi\u015ftir\u2019.<\/p>\n
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En b\u00fcy\u00fck teselli kayna\u011f\u0131m\u0131z: Efendimiz
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Bir di\u011fer amcas\u0131, Hz. Hamza, Uhud Sava\u015f\u0131\u2019nda feci \u015fekilde \u015fehid edildi. \u00d6yle ki Efendimiz bu \u2018kayb\u0131n\u0131\u2019 unutamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in katili Hz. Vah\u015fi sonradan M\u00fcsl\u00fcman olmu\u015f olsa dahi o olay\u0131 hat\u0131rlataca\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in kendisine, \u00e7ok g\u00f6r\u00fcnmemesini rica etmi\u015fti ondan.<\/p>\n
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Hangimiz bu kadar \u00e7ok ve \u00e7e\u015fitli kay\u0131plar ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f\u0131zd\u0131r ki hayat\u0131m\u0131zda? G\u00f6nl\u00fcm teselliye muhta\u00e7 oldu\u011funda bana en \u00e7ok teselli veren noktalardan biri olur, zira benim Efendim benden \u00e7ok daha fazla say\u0131da sevdi\u011fi insan\u0131 yitirmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n
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Bir keresinde, o\u011flunu kaybeden bir annenin feryad\u0131na kulak verdi\u011finde, kad\u0131n Efendimizi tan\u0131mayarak \u201cSen nereden bilirsin ki bu ac\u0131y\u0131\u2026\u201d diye \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Efendimiz de zihinlerimize kaz\u0131nan \u201cSab\u0131r ilk vuru\u015ftad\u0131r\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc bu meyanda s\u00f6yler.<\/p>\n
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H\u00e2s\u0131l\u0131 Efendimiz\u2019in \u201ctuzu kuru\u201d de\u011fildir. Her t\u00fcrl\u00fc kayb\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f, fakat en ci\u011fers\u00fbz olaylarda dahi sabr\u0131n\u0131 asla \u2018kaybetmemi\u015ftir\u2019. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc esas kay\u0131p, sabr\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmektir asl\u0131nda insan i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n
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\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00c2lemler Rabbi ezel\u00ee hit\u00e2b\u0131 Kur\u2019an-\u0131 Hak\u00eem\u2019inde a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a biz kullar\u0131n\u0131 \u2018kay\u0131p\u2019larla s\u0131nayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yler bizlere: <\/p>\n
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\u00dcstelik bu ayet, \u201cAllah yolunda \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclenlere “\u00f6l\u00fcler” demeyin. Hay\u0131r, onlar diridirler. Ancak siz bunu bilemezsiniz\u201d diyen \u015feh\u00e2det ayetiyle \u201cOnlar; ba\u015flar\u0131na bir musibet gelince, “Biz \u015f\u00fcphesiz (her \u015feyimizle) Allah’a aidiz ve \u015f\u00fcphesiz O’na d\u00f6nece\u011fiz” derler.\u201d ayetinin tam aras\u0131ndad\u0131r. \u0130kisi aras\u0131nda k\u00f6pr\u00fcd\u00fcr bir nevi.<\/p>\n
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Kay\u0131plarla s\u0131nanmak s\u00fcnnetullahtand\u0131r
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Buradan \u015funu anl\u0131yoruz ki, hem canlardan hem mallardan hem de gayret edip de isteyip de elde edemedi\u011fimiz emellerimizden \u2018kaybetmemiz\u2019 s\u00fcnnetullahtand\u0131r. Bu s\u00fcnnetullah\u0131n en g\u00fczel uygulamas\u0131n\u0131 ise Efendimiz aleyhissalatuvesselam\u0131n \u2018kay\u0131plarla\u2019 dolu hayat\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz, bu a\u00e7\u0131dan da \u2018kaybetmek\u2019 ve kayb\u0131na sabretmek s\u00fcnnet-i seniyyedendir, diyebiliriz.<\/p>\n
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Meselenin bir di\u011fer boyutunu da \u2018g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr ba\u015far\u0131\u2019 kay\u0131plar\u0131m\u0131z olu\u015fturuyor tabi. D\u00fcnyev\u00ee kay\u0131plar\u0131m\u0131z\u2026 \u00c7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p \u00e7abalay\u0131p da eri\u015femedi\u011fimiz emellerimiz\u2026 Bu anlamda kay\u0131plar da asl\u0131nda s\u00fcnnetullahtan ve s\u00fcnnet-i seniyyedendir. Yukar\u0131daki ayette ge\u00e7en \u201c\u00fcr\u00fcnlerden\u201d tabirini b\u00f6yle anlayabiliriz san\u0131r\u0131m. Efendimiz\u2019in hayat\u0131 boyu ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zorluklar\u0131, \u00e7ekti\u011fi \u00e7ileleri, \u00f6rne\u011fin Taif\u2019i, ambargo y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131, hicreti de b\u00f6yle anlayabiliriz. <\/p>\n
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Evet, sabr\u0131 ve \u015f\u00fckr\u00fc kaybetmeden \u2018kaybetmek\u2019 s\u00fcnnettir.<\/p>\n
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11.01.2014 B\u0130R \u00d6L\u00dcM haberi ald\u0131\u011f\u0131mda akl\u0131ma hep Efendimiz aleyhissalatuvesselam\u2019\u0131n ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6l\u00fcm haberleri gelir. Hen\u00fcz do\u011fmadan babas\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmi\u015ftir \u00f6rne\u011fin, daha ilk \u00e7ocukluk y\u0131llar\u0131na bir \u2018kay\u0131p\u2019la ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. 6 ya\u015f\u0131na geldi\u011finde yeni bir kay\u0131pla tan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Bu kez annesini kaybedecektir. Anne-babas\u0131z b\u00fcy\u00fcyen \u00c2lemlerin Efendisi, annesinin vefat\u0131n\u0131n 2 y\u0131l ard\u0131ndan, bu sefer ona merhametli kuca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7an dedesi Abdulmuttalip\u2019i de kaybedecektir. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"ppma_author":[156],"class_list":["post-88501","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-yazarlar"],"yoast_head":"\n