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\u0130NSANLARIN D\u0130L\u0130NDE s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131, dertleri, yokluklar\u0131 ifade eden kelimeler daha \u00e7oktur. Yan\u0131lm\u0131yorsam, Fecr \u00fcl-\u0130sl\u00e2m adl\u0131 kitapta Arap\u00e7a i\u00e7in yap\u0131lan b\u00f6yle bir tespiti g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm. <\/p>\n
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Suyun k\u0131tl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ekilen bizim co\u011frafyam\u0131zda ve g\u00fcneydeki ko\u015fular\u0131m\u0131zda \u201cP\u0131narba\u015f\u0131\u201d, \u201cSuba\u015f\u0131\u201d, \u201cKarakuyu\u201d, \u201cAkkuyu\u201d, \u201cAyn \u00fcr-Rumm\u00e2neh\u201d (Narl\u0131kaynak) \u201cRa\u2019s \u00fcl-Ayn\u201d (Dereba\u015f\u0131) benzeri isimlerin \u00e7ok\u00e7a bulunmas\u0131 bundand\u0131r san\u0131r\u0131m. <\/p>\n
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G\u00fcnl\u00fck dile bakal\u0131m: \u201cba\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n sa\u011f oldu\u011funu\u201d ancak bir yak\u0131n\u0131m\u0131z vefat etti\u011finde anl\u0131yoruz. Ama ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131z hemen her g\u00fcn \u201ca\u011fr\u0131yabilir\u201d. <\/p>\n
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Annesi babas\u0131 ve di\u011fer yak\u0131nlar\u0131 hayatta olmayana ya da uzakta olana \u201ckimsesiz\u201d diyoruz, ama akrabalar\u0131 ile birlikte olana \u201ckimseli\u201d diyene rastlam\u0131yoruz. <\/p>\n
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\u201c\u0130\u015fsizlik\u201dten (unemployment)hemen her g\u00fcn s\u00f6z ediyoruz, ama \u201ci\u015flilik\u201d (employment)diye bir kelimemiz yok. <\/p>\n
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Ger\u00e7ek istekleri, yokluklar\u0131 ifade eden kavramlar \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi, \u015fi\u015firilen, yokken var edilen istekleri arzular\u0131 ifade eden kavramlar da \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kar. Hatta bazen ikinci gruptakiler birincileri ge\u00e7er. Mesela, insan bazen di\u015finin \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u201cdish\u201dinin (\u00e7anak anten) ar\u0131zalanmas\u0131nda daha az \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc duyabilir. Yani \u015fi\u015firilen ihtiya\u00e7lar ger\u00e7ek ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7er bazen. <\/p>\n
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\u015eimdi \u015fefkat y\u00fckl\u00fc \u015fu paragrafa bakal\u0131m: <\/p>\n
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Demek ger\u00e7ek ihtiya\u00e7lara dikkati celp edip onlara, ilk paragraflarda oldu\u011fu gibi, isimler bulmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011fu gibi, sanal ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n derd-i mai\u015fet belas\u0131yla, reklamla, nazarlar\u0131 s\u00fcrekli d\u00fcnyaya celp etmekle art\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn. <\/p>\n
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\u0130\u015fin bir y\u00f6n\u00fc daha var: ger\u00e7ek ya da l\u00fcks ayr\u0131m\u0131 yap\u0131lmadan \u00e7o\u011falt\u0131lan bu kadar \u201cihtiya\u00e7\u201d maddesinin hepsi olmasa bile b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011fu, insanlar\u0131n \u00e7ok az bir k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131n daha az bir s\u00fcreyle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 ile g\u00fcn y\u00fcz\u00fcne \u00e7\u0131kart\u0131l\u0131yor. (Schumacher, K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck G\u00fczeldir) Bir de bu \u00fcretim insanlar\u0131n bug\u00fcnk\u00fc ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ok \u00fcst\u00fcnde. Baz\u0131 ekonomik s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar (adaletsizli\u011fin verdi\u011fi \u00e7arp\u0131kl\u0131kla, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n her yerinde olmasa bile) yokluktan de\u011fil, varl\u0131ktan kaynaklan\u0131yor. <\/p>\n
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Haftal\u0131k \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma saatlerinin azalt\u0131lmas\u0131 ve \u00e7e\u015fitli vesilelerle y\u0131l\u0131n belli zamanlar\u0131nda ihdas edilen \u201ctatiller\u201d de bir y\u00f6n\u00fcyle bunun i\u00e7in. Bo\u015f zamanlar psikolojisi ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 makale ve kitaplar\u0131n yaz\u0131lmas\u0131 da bununla ilgili. <\/p>\n
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B\u00f6yle olunca, yukar\u0131da de\u011finilen hemen herkesin \u00f6zledi\u011fi, \u00fclkemizde hemen her partinin program\u0131nda var olan i\u015flilik, yani yayg\u0131n deyimi ile \u201ctam istihdam\u201d asl\u0131nda bug\u00fcn\u00fcn d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda bir hayalden ibarettir. <\/p>\n
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Yani, sibernasyon \u00e7a\u011f\u0131nda on be\u015f, baz\u0131 yerlerde on sekiz ya\u015f\u0131na gelmi\u015f herkesin \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 gere\u011fi yok. <\/p>\n
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O zaman, laf\u0131 hi\u00e7 uzatmadan doland\u0131rmadan \u015funu sorsak? Cins-i latif tabir edilen kad\u0131n\u0131n, \u00fcstelik \u015fu stresli ortamda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na ger\u00e7ekten \u201cihtiya\u00e7\u201d var m\u0131? <\/p>\n
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\u0130htiya\u00e7 varsa bu ihtiya\u00e7 ger\u00e7ek bir ihtiya\u00e7 m\u0131 yoksa ehl-i dalaletin nazara vere vere \u015fi\u015firdi\u011fi sanal bir ihtiya\u00e7 m\u0131? <\/p>\n
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[Acaba bu y\u00fczden midir ki, bir\u00e7ok kapitalist bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n artmas\u0131na, on sekizinden sonra gen\u00e7lerin, baba evlerini terk edip ayr\u0131 eve \u00e7\u0131kmalar\u0131na seyirci kal\u0131yor? Zira ayr\u0131 ev demek bir s\u00fcr\u00fc e\u015fya ile doldurulmas\u0131 gereken ayr\u0131 bir mek\u00e2n demek onlara g\u00f6re\u2026]<\/p>\n
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Ve akl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda psikolog ve \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fimi uzmanlar\u0131n\u0131n dedi\u011fine bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, kad\u0131n bu ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lamak i\u00e7in d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ruh d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda hangi yaralanmalar husule geliyor? <\/p>\n
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Hele 0 \u2013 6 ya\u015f aras\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n anneden uzak kalmas\u0131n\u0131 hangi ihtiya\u00e7 mazur g\u00f6sterebilir? <\/p>\n
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\u00c7ocuk, gerek her vicdan sahibinin i\u00e7ini s\u0131zlatan h\u00e2l diliyle gerekse k\u00e0l diliyle, \u201cniye beni terk ediyorsun anne?\u201d dedi\u011finde, sorusu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmeden verilecek haz\u0131r cevaplar bellidir: <\/p>\n
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Senin oturman i\u00e7in veya bayramda seyranda, ate\u015f almak i\u00e7in gelmi\u015f gibi gelip gidiveren misafirler i\u00e7in oturma grubu [ne hazin! Oturacak grup yok, oturma grubu al\u0131yoruz, Bat\u0131l\u0131n\u0131n ironi dedi\u011fi husus.] ald\u0131k da ondan. <\/p>\n
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\u0130leride derslerine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olsun diye bilgisayar ald\u0131k da ondan. <\/p>\n
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Benim mutfak i\u015fleri ile u\u011fra\u015fmaktan pek basamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m, baban\u0131n ise bir k\u00f6\u015fesinde TV seyrederek s\u0131z\u0131p kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 hal\u0131lar\u0131 yeniledik de ondan.<\/p>\n
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Hepi topu bir ay kalabildi\u011fimiz bir yazl\u0131k ald\u0131k, ya da tamirini yapt\u0131rd\u0131k da ondan\u2026 <\/p>\n
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Beraberce rahat ve ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z gezebilmemiz i\u00e7in araba ald\u0131k da ondan. <\/p>\n
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Bak\u0131c\u0131 ile beraber kald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda d\u0131\u015far\u0131 seyrederken can\u0131n s\u0131k\u0131lmas\u0131n diye, eski pederleri att\u0131k daha ho\u015f desenli hal\u0131lar ald\u0131k da ondan\u2026 <\/p>\n
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Liste uzay\u0131p gider. Soral\u0131m; bunlar\u0131n hangisi ger\u00e7ek bir ihtiya\u00e7t\u0131r? <\/p>\n
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Ancak, maksad\u0131m\u0131z \u00fcz\u00fcm yemek; ba\u011fc\u0131 d\u00f6vmek de\u011fil. Kaynaklar\u0131m\u0131zda ev ger\u00e7ekten fakr-\u00fc zaruret i\u00e7inde ise kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 caiz g\u00f6ren h\u00fck\u00fcmler var. <\/p>\n
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Ama bunu \u00e7ocu\u011fu ihmal etmeden yapabilmenin yolu da var ve haf\u0131zam beni yan\u0131ltm\u0131yorsa, Hollanda gibi baz\u0131 h\u00fcr \u00fclkelerde uygulan\u0131yor. <\/p>\n
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\u201cKad\u0131n\u0131n ekonomik ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131\u201d ve \u201cekonomik s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u201d hurras\u0131 i\u00e7inde, bu dediklerimiz pek k\u00e0le al\u0131nmayacakt\u0131r, ama anneleri \u00e7al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f, bu y\u00fczden psikolojileri bozulmu\u015f \u00e7ocuklar ile bizi nas\u0131l bir gelece\u011fin bekledi\u011fi de d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye de\u011fer.<\/p>\n
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\u00a9\u00a02021 karakalem.net, Mehmed Boyac\u0131o\u011flu<\/p>\n
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23.06.2011 \u0130NSANLARIN D\u0130L\u0130NDE s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131, dertleri, yokluklar\u0131 ifade eden kelimeler daha \u00e7oktur. Yan\u0131lm\u0131yorsam, Fecr \u00fcl-\u0130sl\u00e2m adl\u0131 kitapta Arap\u00e7a i\u00e7in yap\u0131lan b\u00f6yle bir tespiti g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm. Suyun k\u0131tl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ekilen bizim co\u011frafyam\u0131zda ve g\u00fcneydeki ko\u015fular\u0131m\u0131zda \u201cP\u0131narba\u015f\u0131\u201d, \u201cSuba\u015f\u0131\u201d, \u201cKarakuyu\u201d, \u201cAkkuyu\u201d, \u201cAyn \u00fcr-Rumm\u00e2neh\u201d (Narl\u0131kaynak) \u201cRa\u2019s \u00fcl-Ayn\u201d (Dereba\u015f\u0131) benzeri isimlerin \u00e7ok\u00e7a bulunmas\u0131 bundand\u0131r san\u0131r\u0131m. G\u00fcnl\u00fck dile bakal\u0131m: \u201cba\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n sa\u011f oldu\u011funu\u201d ancak bir […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"ppma_author":[154],"class_list":["post-88390","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-yazarlar"],"yoast_head":"\n