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ASIL DERD\u0130M\u0130 \u00f6yk\u00fcdeki babaya s\u00f6yleteyim: Babas\u0131yla sabah namaz\u0131na kalkm\u0131\u015f bir delikanl\u0131, kom\u015fu evlerin \u0131\u015f\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n yanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce, \u201c\u015eunlara bak baba, namaza kalkmam\u0131\u015flar!\u201d der. Baba mahzun olur: \u201cAh evlad\u0131m, b\u00f6yle diyece\u011fine namaza kalkmasayd\u0131n ke\u015fke.\u201d<\/p>\n
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Bir de \u015f\u00f6yle bir \u00f6yk\u00fc bilirim: Bir sarho\u015fun Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2\u2019n\u0131n derg\u00e2h\u0131na girip patavats\u0131zl\u0131k etmesi \u00fczerine, m\u00fcridler sarho\u015fu tartaklar. Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2 ise m\u00fcridlere \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131r: \u201c\u015earab\u0131 o i\u00e7mi\u015f ama siz sarho\u015f olmu\u015fsunuz.\u201d<\/p>\n
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\u015earap\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n niye sarho\u015f oldu\u011fu ilgilendirmez m\u00fcridi; sarho\u015fa nas\u0131l davranaca\u011f\u0131 ilgilendirir. M\u00fcridin sarho\u015fa kabal\u0131k yapmamas\u0131, sarho\u015fun m\u00fcride kabal\u0131k yapmamas\u0131ndan \u00f6nceliklidir. Bu \u00f6nceli\u011fi bilmezsek, \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 ay\u0131plamak gibi affedilmez bir ay\u0131ba harcar\u0131z. \u015earap\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n sarho\u015flu\u011fu ge\u00e7er ama ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n ay\u0131plar\u0131n\u0131 sayarken kendini ay\u0131ps\u0131z bilme sarho\u015flu\u011fu ge\u00e7mez.<\/p>\n
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Kur\u2019\u00e2n\u2019\u0131n Karun, Firavun, Nemrud, Ebu Leheb, C\u00e2lut gibi k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck tiplerini \u0131srarla hat\u0131rlatmas\u0131, i\u00e7imizdeki sapma dinamiklerini hat\u0131rlatmak ad\u0131nad\u0131r. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 ay\u0131playarak i\u00e7imizdeki ay\u0131plar\u0131 unutturmak i\u00e7in de\u011fildir. Kur\u2019\u00e2n ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 etiketlemeye de\u011fil kendimizi sorgulamaya \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131r: \u201cFiravun\u2019u firavunla\u015ft\u0131ran benlik sende de var!\u201d demeye getirir. \u201cKarun\u2019u Karunla\u015ft\u0131ran kibre ve gurura sen uzak dur!\u201d diye uyar\u0131r. Karun \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr ama Karunla\u015fma tehlikesi ya\u015famaktad\u0131r. Tebbet S\u00fbresi\u2019nde \u201cKurusun iki eli Ebu Leheb\u2019in\u201d derken, elimizde olanlar\u0131n bizi de \u201cEbu Leheble\u015ftirme\u201d tehlikesine dikkat \u00e7eker: \u201cMal\u0131n ve kazanc\u0131n seni de helak edebilir.\u201d Maksat, Ebu Leheb diye birini \u00e7eki\u015ftirmek, \u00e7eki\u015ftirmemizi istemek de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n
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Aldananlar\u0131 g\u00f6rmek, aldanabilece\u011fini g\u00f6sterir insana. Kendisi gibi insanlar\u0131n da aldanabildi\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcnce, aldananlara \u201coh olsun!\u201d demeden \u00f6nce kendisinin de aldanabilece\u011fini hat\u0131rlay\u0131p \u201ceyvah!\u201d diyebilmek kulca bir titreyi\u015ftir. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc a\u011fz\u0131nda \u00e7o\u011faltarak kendini temize \u00e7ekmek ise kulluk de\u011fildir. Kendi dindarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fccelterek g\u00fcnahk\u00e2rlar\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamak ise dindar bir insan\u0131n i\u015fi de\u011fildir. Yoktur b\u00f6yle dindarl\u0131k.<\/p>\n
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Derg\u00e2hta s\u0131nanan sarho\u015f de\u011fil m\u00fcridlerdir. \u015eimdi s\u0131nanan ise Defne de\u011fil, biziz! Defne hakk\u0131ndaki s\u00f6zlerimiz Defne\u2019ye bir \u015fey kazand\u0131rmaz da kaybettirmez de. Kaybedece\u011fi olan biziz. Bu s\u0131navda kaybetmezsek, \u00f6l\u00fc Defne\u2019yi olmasa da, ya\u015fayan Defneleri kazanabiliriz. Hem belki \u201cDefne\u2019nin \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc\u201dnden ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z dersle, ya\u015fayan Defnelerin \u201c\u00f6l\u00fc kalpleri\u201dni diriltiriz.<\/p>\n
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\u00d6b\u00fcr t\u00fcrl\u00fcs\u00fc kolayc\u0131l\u0131kt\u0131r; konfor sunar akl\u0131m\u0131za. Kli\u015fe ile \u00e7\u00f6zeriz her \u00e7eli\u015fkimizi. Sloganla y\u00fckseltiriz sesimizi. Sustururuz. Dine yaslanma keyfini ya\u015fat\u0131r\u0131z nefsimize. \u00c7ak\u0131rkeyf oluruz biraz da. Hafif sarho\u015f\u2026 De\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n
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11.02.2011 ASIL DERD\u0130M\u0130 \u00f6yk\u00fcdeki babaya s\u00f6yleteyim: Babas\u0131yla sabah namaz\u0131na kalkm\u0131\u015f bir delikanl\u0131, kom\u015fu evlerin \u0131\u015f\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n yanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce, \u201c\u015eunlara bak baba, namaza kalkmam\u0131\u015flar!\u201d der. Baba mahzun olur: \u201cAh evlad\u0131m, b\u00f6yle diyece\u011fine namaza kalkmasayd\u0131n ke\u015fke.\u201d Bir de \u015f\u00f6yle bir \u00f6yk\u00fc bilirim: Bir sarho\u015fun Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2\u2019n\u0131n derg\u00e2h\u0131na girip patavats\u0131zl\u0131k etmesi \u00fczerine, m\u00fcridler sarho\u015fu tartaklar. Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2 ise m\u00fcridlere \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131r: \u201c\u015earab\u0131 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"ppma_author":[144],"class_list":["post-87835","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-yazarlar"],"yoast_head":"\n